Please be polite.
I guess I thought it went without saying that this being a blog, people were welcome to leave comments. This is one of the things that blogs are there for, and indeed depend on.
But I also thought it went without saying that people need to be polite, and hurling abuse at me and my family is utterly unacceptable. I’ve thought a lot about whether I needed to post this or not, but it seems for a few people – it does need to be said.
If you disagree with something I say, or believe, then feel free to say so, but please be polite about it. You do not have to verbally beat the crap out of me, my husband or my family in order to get your point across. And if you think you do, then honestly, you don’t really have the intelligence you need to make a point.
Make your argument – preferably backed up with some facts, rather than drivel you have just made up, and let me know what they are. If you yell at me and abuse me, I won’t change my mind, and I will just think you are a twat. I will take the piss out of you, and then I will block you from commenting further. Plenty of people are able to comment on here in perfect disagreement with my views and not be nasty about it. But there are always one or two pillocks out there that can’t handle people with different opinions.
If you just want a fight, and to act like an obnoxious little moron – please find somewhere else to get your jollies off. This is not a place where that kind of behaviour is tolerated. You would not likely come into our house and abuse my family so don’t do it on here just because you are hiding behind a computer and it makes you feel big and brave.
I write this blog rather than living on the forums, because I want to be able to give out information without being beaten up every five minutes for not always having the same point if view as the people in “control”. Sometimes what I say may not agree with your personal point of view, but hey – I’m not living your life. I live MY life, and it should not offend you if it is not the same as yours. The damage done by abusing me lasts a long time.
If you find my views offensive, or cannot grasp why I would choose to live life the way I do, then that is fair enough. Stop reading my blog. But if you do choose to keep reading it – please don’t rip me to pieces because it’s not what YOU believe or would say.
Basically, the abuse and absolutely horrid things that Stuart Eaves says about me and my family are so far out of order it’s not remotely funny. I do not understand why any intelligent person would say those things and for one minute think it was OK. It’s not, and you would need to be a very shallow and vindictive person indeed to throw that kind of prejudice and venom at anyone.
I cannot adequately express my disgust for people who believe for one minute that my parents are here for any other reason than that we all love each other and do not want to live 12,000 miles apart, and I feel somewhat sorry for Stuart that his life is such that he cannot grasp this concept.
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