Avalon’s Money Thread: Am I a Big Spender?
So in reality, do you just take out a certain amount of cash and try to make do with it? I try to do that, but almost always something unexpected comes up, such as filling a gas tank or topping up my bus card… Something that you can’t really delay. So can you tell me how do you control yourself?
Firstly you CAN work on a cash only budget and this works well for over spenders. But that is really talking about people who literally spend spend spend. A cash only budget is where you take out a set amount of money each week and that’s IT, is said to help by making people AWARE that they are spending their money. When you use Credit cards, you never see the real money so for many people it helps when they have to count out $20 bills to buy that $400 coat! This can be really helpful in getting over any “consumerism” habits you may have. Moving to New Zealand of itself won’t necessarily turn you into a non-consumer. Learning to spend less money isnt something you get by osmosis from Kiwis – who overspend as much as anyone else.
When you look at what you are spending the money on, ask yourself:
“Do I NEED this or do I WANT this”?
If you WANT it, it needs to wait till you have the spare money or it comes out of sanity allowance. If it’s a NEED, then budget for it. Then when looking at items you are going to buy, look at the PRICE but also look at the VALUE. Ask yourself:
- “Is this thing WORTH what they are asking for it?”
- “Can I buy it cheaper elsewhere” and
- “Would I rather spend that money on something else”.
You would not believe how much money I HAVEN’T spent by asking those questions. Except on coffee which in any universe is worth any amount of money charged as far as I’m concerned especially when a friend and a natter is involved.
How do I control myself???
Well, when we were in debt I woke up and realised just how much the banks were making out of me. And how ill I was getting because I was so worried about how I we were going to pay the bills. Now I don’t remember the last time I couldn’t sleep because I was worried about how to pay a bill. THAT is what keeps me going, and stops me buying stuff I really don’t need, gets the library books back on time and makes me do crazy things like “budget days”. After a while I even got to enjoy it!
Just had another thought about this. I got my Moneysaving expert email today and it’s talking about debt. I know I’ve just mentioned credit cards on here but I just need to say that if you are struggling to cope with money, DONT get a credit card. I use one ONLY because it saves me money to do so, I get cashback rewards and it costs me nothing to do so. I ALWAYS pay off the full balance every month, so I pay NO INTEREST. (This makes my Mortgage cheaper because I have a revolving credit mortgage)
If you cannot do that, using a credit card can be VERY bad for your finances. Interest charges are too high and if you can’t pay the full balance, your debt spirals out of control way too easily.
Like what Avalon has to say?
Click Here to buy Avalon's Guide or Click Here to buy the E-Book
Related posts:
- Avalon’s Money Thread: Revolving Credit Mortgages.
- Avalon’s Money Thread: How do I start budgeting?
- Avalon’s Money Thread: Banks and Bank Charges.
Comments
Tell me what you're thinking...
and oh, if you want a pic to show with your comment, go get a gravatar!
Avalon’s Guide On Facebook
-
